The Thing Is
to love life, to love it even
when you have no stomach for it
and everything you’ve held dear
crumbles like burnt paper in your hands,
your throat filled with the silt of it.
When grief sits with you, its tropical heat
thickening the air, heavy as water
more fit for gills than lungs;
when grief weights you like your own flesh
only more of it, an obesity of grief,
you think, How can a body withstand this?
Then you hold life like a face
between your palms, a plain face,
no charming smile, no violet eyes,
and you say, yes, I will take you
I will love you, again.
when you have no stomach for it
and everything you’ve held dear
crumbles like burnt paper in your hands,
your throat filled with the silt of it.
When grief sits with you, its tropical heat
thickening the air, heavy as water
more fit for gills than lungs;
when grief weights you like your own flesh
only more of it, an obesity of grief,
you think, How can a body withstand this?
Then you hold life like a face
between your palms, a plain face,
no charming smile, no violet eyes,
and you say, yes, I will take you
I will love you, again.
Ellen Bass
And all shall be well and
All manner of thing shall be well.
And all shall be well and
All manner of thing shall be well.
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You're in my thoughts, too, and we will help you carry whatever burden may be troubling with you. All shall be well, yes, and all manner of thing shall be well. Hang in there.
I never believe when people tell me all will be well, I'll admit that
BUT
what else is there for us to do but not BELIEVE and hold on and be BRAVE.
(have commenced hand wringing)
jbhat
That is such a beautiful poem, thanks for posting it.
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